When I was a kid I had fond memories of exploring the file system, figuring out how applications worked, playing with Kid Pix, Paint, and a few games (roughly Apple IIGS, Macintosh 2, through iMac + a Windows XP desktop).
Do you have any fun old laptops or device you've got lying around that you've used to introduce kids into a desktop environment?
Any and all recommendations welcome :)
We have banned YouTube on our house, without an adult watching. But I make a private playlist that has interesting videos I see, mostly educational, so when we have time to watch we watch something of quality.
More details:
https://akkartik.name/freewheeling
It helps with getting the mouse and keyboard down.
I was quite fond of a number of things as a child that when looking back on it knowing what I know now, were extremely detrimental to my development as a person.
In some cases the things I loved the most at the time ended up setting me back as much as a decade in maturity (i.e. gaming addiction), which is relentlessly pursued by most companies in the space today.
I don't intend to raise or coddle my children in such a way as to have them become infantile hopelessly dependent adults, and in many cases today as a parent you have to be ruthless when it comes to cutting out malign influences.
I have friends who have children, and they've taken similar spartan approaches to great effect.
Their children read, think, and comprehend material at a much higher level than their peers.
He loved writing "adsdfdsfjkldf", and sometimes he'd painstakingly type his own name.
Later I implemented the classic guessing-game "I'm thinking of a number", "that was too high", "that was too low", and we talked about choosing the number in the middle:
https://github.com/skx/gobasic/blob/master/examples/55-game....
Later still things got more interesting when he could both type but also read, and I implemented a simple text-based adventure game for him to play with:
https://github.com/skx/lighthouse-of-doom/
As for him using the computer? Nowdays he watches videos of minecraft stuff on youtube, but has zero interest in coding, experimenting, or learning how it works.
That's fine, he's not me and he can have his own interests. That's my takeaway from doing computer-stuff at a young age: Not all children care about computer-stuff.
brudgers•7mo ago
And you both will be better off for it.
So put your child on your lap and let the computer be an excuse until you give yourself permission not to need an excuse. Because they are only little once, turn out amazing, get their own lives, and you miss them like hell. Good luck.
johncole•7mo ago
brudgers•7mo ago
It is decision about who you are.
msencenb•7mo ago
My post did not say anything about how I was going to use the computer, in fact we often do exactly what you said with his fake keyboard in between his other activities.
I also believe that it's my job to provide my children with the environment in which they can thrive and be independent. This post is asking for constructive guidance on how other people have navigated the transition into engaging with technology that all kids go through.
If you have any ideas, I'd be happy to hear them.
brudgers•7mo ago
The advice is based on experience. Imagine asking this question in 2002. That’s before social media, before ubiquitous data, before smartphones, before streaming.
Your job is to grow as much as your child so you can support them when they start having adultish problems; can just stop following your agenda; and the only tool on your toolbelt is being the kind of person they want to be around.
Screen time is rounding error on the quality of parenting. Stop arguing on the internet. It is pretend work.
syeare•7mo ago
HenryBemis•7mo ago
At that point the thing is to please you/free you some time/tell your colleagues that your kid wrote XYZ in "ruby on rails"/etc.
A kid wants to play. Give it YT and it will binge cartoons and Mr Beast (where its brain is "programmed". Give it a ball and go to the park and your kid will never (don't quote me) have asthma.
Take your pick folks!