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Ask HN: Career Change Confusion

7•tdnka•3h ago
I feel stuck and not sure what to do with my career anymore. I’m currently a software engineer but I have never really enjoyed working professionally as a SWE, I’ve switched companies about every two years thinking that maybe if I can work on something different it would solve this problem but it never has and I am always ready to leave after about a year and a half.

I’m not great at being an engineer either, I’m good enough to do my work but it’s not fulfilling and it leaves me feeling drained at the end of the day. I’m technically a senior engineer so along with doing my mind numbing programming work for the day, I’m also supposed to be actively and passionately discussing hot topics like micro frontends, micro services, graphQL, and other things that I could not care less about. The more complicated we can make the solution, the better because there will be more work for us all to do.

All of this despite actually liking programming on personal projects makes me think this isn’t the right career choice for me, but I’m not sure what else to do. I have tried to do something less involved in engineering but still close enough that I can use my technical skills and not really enjoyed it because it turned into me making google slides explaining how to integrate x customer system with y API over and over again, then presenting that.

I would like to do more creative things like make video games or something but I also need to pay rent and I’m worried that if I make something I enjoy doing my career again I will end up in the same spot of not enjoying it anymore.

Comments

cableshaft•2h ago
You can always work on video games on the side. I used to be in the video game industry, but I'm not anymore. That's what I do now.

Even before I got into the industry I was making video games on the side. The only time I wasn't making games on the side was when I was in the industry itself, as it seemed like a conflict of interest (and the contracts I signed reinforced that).

aristofun•2h ago
I feel you. For me when I found myself in a very similar situation I found 2 answers:

1. Full autonomy and creative freedom (ie my own thing whith no stakeholders to convince, no egghead managers to leak asses, no humiliating performance reviews etc)

2. Highly technically challenging product in a relatively small team (think building postges db vs cobbling up apis and plow through layers of legacy shit to serve another marketing agency nobody will remember in 10 years).

The 2nd is a weaker answer (doesn’t last long either, because companies like cars tend to degrade over time).

The main theme for me is having a deep connection to meaning. Having this magic “why” answered with both my mind and my soul.

kadushka•2h ago
Try physical labor: plumbing, electrical, construction. You might like it, and if not you’ll appreciate how easy you had it as a swe.
aristofun•46m ago
That sounds quite patronizing.

It’s like telling someone with depression to go to war and then be shamed that he had depression. Like it’s a privilege.

If it was easy for OP we wouldn’t seen this post. Intellectual burn out and stress is much more severe than a stress from manual labor

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