The way I "protect" myself from my phone is by not have any social media apps installed on my phone. None. Nada. Zilch.
The only "time waster" I have installed on my phone is a news feed reader and a couple of mindless games one can enjoy while passing away time (like waiting at the doctor or dentist office).
The upshot of this approach? I don't have to buy the latest-and-greatest phone, and I can make do with it for several years before having to replace it.
os2warpman•7mo ago
Whatever world the author looking to return to, presumed lost due to technology, where people were present and engaged in a crowded social situation, never existed.
I've spent a cumulative total of four years in Japan, most in the 90s. Here is a video that demonstrates the typical pre-smartphone Tokyo metro riding experience, which replicates my memories precisely: https://youtu.be/hyK3-w1TIyg?si=uXzm0G5pUvrvkw78&t=270
Based on the other blog posts it appears the author is too young to remember a time before smartphones.
I want to assure them that smartphones are much better than the alternative, one of which was (having forgotten my book) sitting staring at the seconds hand on my dive watch, spinning the bezel over and over again until realizing that the barely-audible clicking may be disturbing another passengers, and then stopping and just staring at my shoes for 30 or so more minutes.
sym5731•7mo ago
> Based on the other blog posts it appears the author is too young to remember a time before smartphones.
You are probably right, I'm in my mid twenties and I was in middle school when the first smartphones came out.
What I mean in my article It's not the demonization of smartphones as a form of technology, but rather the compulsive attitude of use I see more and more often.
I agree that watching what's happening in the world is more interesting than staring to the void on the subway, and I'm absolutely not saying that engaging conversations with strangers is a plausible alternative in most situations.
So I reiterate that my article was aimed at that attitude of obsessive attachment that makes you scroll twenty Reels before you even have time to get on the subway or sit on a park bench.
Sometimes taking ten minutes of mental presence, where you make yourself aware of what's happening around you can be healthy.