While you’re at it, you should make your own clothes, grow your own food, and build your own home with materials you procured sustainably.
Taken to its extreme, this line of thinking is such a non-starter that I don’t even really know what to do with it.
Person A: I try to avoid eating beef regularly, cattle farms are so environmentally unfriendly. Person B: Taken to its extreme, we should eliminate all cattle. Say goodbye to the hamburger!!!
Um, it's possible to walk and chew gum at the same time.
It’s not that deep. Just be more mindful about what you do and what you use to do them, and you’ll find better ways to do them down the road that will make you and the people around you happier.
Some examples:
I haven't ordered anything on Amazon since 2014. I hope the rationale is pretty obvious. I lean heavily into brick-and-mortar and especially local stores, where possible (I'm blessed with many local book and music stores). I do use eBay, and occasionally (maybe 1 in 10 purchases) I find out that the seller is actually just doing arbitrage from Amazon - they buy a $10 item on Amazon for $5, and have Amazon ship it to me using the "gift" feature. $5 profit for them; lots of bad feels for me.
I don't subscribe to any of the streaming platforms. I believe that I should have a tangible video that can't be clawed back, so that means buying a lot of DVDs and Blu-rays. Blu-rays, I know, are a tower of cards, since my ability to play them back indefinitely relies on leaked keys. If I want to watch a "Netflix exclusive", like Stranger Things, it means I'm organizing a watch party with friends who have subscriptions, where I'll provide food and beverages to at least attempt to offset that I'm benefiting from a streaming platform.
I listen to a local college radio station, instead of Spotify. I love that there are human DJs curating the playlists. They're creating community (the station actively engages the community), and since they're mostly college students, they're learning a valuable skill for their futures as well. Since laws around public radio prevent them from selling advertisements, I donate to the station in excess of what I'd pay for Spotify, since I value it. For buying music, my preference order is Bandcamp (DRM-free FLAC; the artists actually get a decent cut on the sale), followed by physical CDs (see the tangibility comment, above).
I run my own e-mail - both inbound and outbound. This is because I am stubborn, and have done it for twenty years now. I know Gmail and Outlook are on the receiving end of 90% of the e-mails I send, so they have a copy of most every message. The maintenance makes it a Pyrrhic victory.
I abstain from social media entirely. Hacker News comments are about as "social" as I get in the public sphere these days, as they capture the spirit of what I loved about the Usenet/forum days. I do participate in some professional Slack networks. Much as all of those networks would prefer _not_ to be on Slack, it'd be too hard to up and move the communities.
I could go on, but the gist is that I know these decisions are helping me, more or less exclusively - they don't even register in the overall trend.
Please report these sellers to eBay. This is explicitly against their terms of service:
https://www.ebay.com/help/selling/posting-items/setting-post...
> However, listing an item on eBay and then purchasing the item from another retailer or marketplace that ships directly to your customer is not allowed on eBay.
Huh. Happy fastmail user for close to... 10 years now? Never had a problem of this sort.
wbobeirne•6mo ago
macintux•6mo ago
https://daringfireball.net/2024/11/regarding_and_well_agains...
Anil Dash (quoted by Gruber above) has even stronger feelings.
https://www.anildash.com/2024/11/19/dont_call_it_a_substack/
bitwize•6mo ago
api•6mo ago
I do dislike Substack for other reasons though, but they have more to do with disliking content aggregators and seeing them as parasites. Substack, and (worse) Medium are magazines with unpaid or under-paid writers. They bait people in with ease-of-use and free hosting and then paywall their content and if they allow author monetization they take a very large cut. The general trend on all these platforms is progressive enshittification.
Patreon remains probably the least objectionable one.
wbobeirne•6mo ago
It could definitely change in the future, but Substack's cut seems to be 10% minus credit card fees. That definitely seems pretty reasonable in comparison to other platforms (Most app stores tend to be around 30%.)
Maybe there are other creator-hostile elements, but most of the creators I follow that have started on or switched to Substack don't seem to have an adversarial relationship with it.
FinnKuhn•6mo ago
[1] https://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2024/01/subst..., without pay wall: https://archive.ph/d1d7N