> In December, two months before her death, Sophie broke her pact with Harry and told us she was suicidal, describing a riptide of dark feelings. Her first priority was reassuring her shocked family: “Mom and Dad, you don’t have to worry.”

> Sophie represented her crisis as transitory; she said she was committed to living. ChatGPT helped her build a black box that made it harder for those around her to appreciate the severity of her distress. Because she had no history of mental illness, the presentable Sophie was plausible to her family, doctors and therapists.

> As a former mother, I know there are Sophies all around us. Everywhere, people are struggling, and many want no one to know. I fear that in unleashing A.I. companions, we may be making it easier for our loved ones to avoid talking to humans about the hardest things, including suicide. This is a problem that smarter minds than mine will have to solve. (If yours is one of those minds, please start.)

> Sophie left a note for her father and me, but her last words didn’t sound like her. Now we know why: She had asked Harry to improve her note, to help her find something that could minimize our pain and let her disappear with the smallest possible ripple.

> In that, Harry failed. This failure wasn’t the fault of his programmers, of course. The best-written letter in the history of the English language couldn’t do that.

and that's why she didn't open up to the human.

To me, it felt as if as some other commentor on hn also said which I'd like to extend is that if chatgpt itself did allow these reporting. I doubt how effective you can be. Sure people using chatgpt might be made better, so I think that even if that saves 1 life, it should be done but it would still not completely bypass the main issue since there are websites like brave / ddg which offer private ai, maybe even venice too which don't require any account access and are we forgetting about running local models?

I am sure that people won't run local models for therapy since the entry to do local model is pretty tough for 99% of people imo but still I can still think that people might start using venice or brave for their therapy or some other therapy bot who will not have these functionality of reporting because the user might fear about it.

Honestly, I am just laying out thoughts, I still believe that since most people think of AI = chatgpt, such step on actually reporting might be net positive in the society if that even saves one life, but that might just be moving goal posts since other services can pop up all the same.

What is the point? That suicides should drop now that we are using LLMs?

NYTimes is amplifying a FUD campaign as part of an ongoing lawsuit. Someone's daughter or son is going to kill themselves every 10 minutes today and that is not OpenAIs fault no matter what editorial amplification tricks the NYTimes uses to distort the reality field.