Very disappointing to see IEEE cover this as though it's an actual thing, would they cover the "dying dream" of Amway knives?
You forgot organized crime
Where are the dreamers?
Back in the day tech nerds, coders, and hackers were far more vocal in favor of open standards and decentralized web.
They watched big tech clobber the internet.
They watched network effects cause irreversible centralization.
They watched Cambridge Analytica and "openness" get abused.
They watched toddlers being given iPads to watch YouTube by their parents.
They watched kids have mental health issues from online participation.
They watched teens start strangling each other after watching porn.
They watched robots become 40% of internet traffic, and that was before AI.
They watched crypto go from decentralized payments into a get-rich-quick scheme.
And they questioned whether it's worth standing behind this.
Do you think kids wouldn't develop the same mental health issues if they were on Mastodon instead of Facebook?
Do you think the largest Mastodon instances wouldn't start also harming their users once large enough?
There's nothing preventing the decentralized from becoming centralized over time, from the same network effects, and abusing the users all over again.
In which case, why fight for it? It's pointless; we started decentralized and became centralized; a re-decentralization moment just causes the same economic forces to pull everything together again.
I'm not sure, but Facebook has employed too many PhDs to name with the goal of fostering addiction to their product, as well as behavioral ad targeting, and to my knowledge, Mastadon has not.
> Do you think the largest Mastodon instances wouldn't start also harming their users once large enough?
I don't think user harm is correlated with size of the platform.
> There's nothing preventing the decentralized from becoming centralized over time, from the same network effects, and abusing the users all over again.
Which is why I support things like the AT Protocol, which enable decentralized social networks that can share data amongst each other, and permit users greater control over what they see and from where.
> In which case, why fight for it?
Because I've been fighting for a better internet for decades at this point and see nothing better to do with that time were I to stop.
Eternal vigilance is the price of liberty. Among other things left unsaid.
I fought for years and came to the same conclusion. I just focus on myself now and a few tight knit circles of friends. We still hang out together on Diaspora. We still muck and hack around with stuff like Ubuntu Touch and debate the latest Linux distros and see how long we can go without our smartphones.
A few of my friends have gone "analog" because of what's happened. They were there during the first dot com bust. They've seen what the internet and tech have become - they just want to opt out now. Kind of crazy the times we're living in. Decentralization was the dream - now its just a nightmare a lot of us no longer what to be apart of.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40062485/
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2025/jul/07/no-safe...
“There’s no safe way to do it, no safe quantity of blood or oxygen you can cut off from her brain for fun,” says Jane Meyrick, a chartered health psychologist who leads work on sexual health at the University of the West of England. She describes being at a sexual health conference last year where data was presented on sexual strangulation – the prevalence and harms. “Usually, at those conferences, people will be talking about the extremes of what everyone is getting up to in a very sex-positive way,” she says. “When this was presented, you could feel the tension, the internal conflict, in the room, with professionals being unable to reconcile the gap between what they were hearing and their usual sex-positivity.”
Case in point, the sex-positive educators in the UK... forced to say that certain bedroom behaviors actually are too dangerous to participate in. Even that, yes, we will control what you do in the bedroom, with the force of law, and even restrict depicting that act regardless of consent, with the force of law. Extremely ironic that sex-positive educators are now forced to say what you can do in the bedroom, after they said "who are you to tell consenting adults what they can do" for decades.
> This is the first comment I've seen from you that leverages the UK's authority on anything related to online safety.
Edit for a (now deleted) reply: This has nothing to do with the UK; studies objectively say this activity is more dangerous than waterboarding. If that is true, action is objectively necessary, including against depictions.
https://maddox.xmission.com/c.cgi?u=manly_suicide"%3B>...
It's from 2004 and dark humor.
...but sexytime "choking" has an entire range of intensity that is more about intimacy and physical touch and doesn't restrict airflow or blood flow at all.
If a 14 year old watches porn and decides to copy what they see, that is a failure of sex education. Every child needs to be taught fairly graphic and frank realities of sex, sexuality, and sexual activity.
For some reason, this is basically only difficult in parts of the US.
> If a 14 year old watches porn
This is not 14 year olds either, these are teenagers and fully grown consenting adults, notably not in the US.
"A survey by the Institute for Addressing Strangulation, established with Home Office funding in 2022, after strangulation became a standalone offence, found over a third of 16 to 34-year-olds had experienced this."
The reality is that people are influenced by pornography, despite education, despite warnings, despite common sense, despite age, despite region, and it is killing people. Even sex-positive educators are stuck in cognitive dissonance on this one.
Any perversion relegated to a handful of people, now is part of porn "sex-ed" to millions of kids
We had BBSes, forums and IRC. Now it's Discord.
We had LAN parties. Now it's publisher-controlled match lobbies.
We had RSS feeds. Now it's curated social algos.
We had myriad self-hosted wikis and homespun fansites. Now it's all ad-choked Fandom.
So on and so forth.
Yes there’s Matrix, but it’s not packaged in a way that makes hosting a node accessible and the way it’s marketed, there’s no clear benefit to typical users.
Imagine if instead, the client and server were one in the same and starting a server is as simple as running the client and clicking “new server”, with the software figuring the rest out. Then, on the marketing side you can sell it as a way to get features that Discord puts behind a paywall for free.
There’s no way that wouldn’t have a dramatic impact on take-up.
https://matrix.org/ecosystem/clients/
The world doesn't need that many clients, it needs 1 or 2 really good ones that are well polished, supported and marketed.
This is a problem in other open-source ecosystems. Eg. We don't need more web browsers, we need Firefox to focus on being a great web browser.
If you want to narrow it down to one or two really great ones which are well polished, supported and marketed just pick Element X, Beeper or maybe Fluffychat?
And yet how many web browsers are actually well known and used by the average web user?
Safari, chrome and Firefox (if you're lucky).
My point is that if there are too many choices for users then the network effect is lost.
One discovery problem is this client had three rebrandings, from Vector to Riot to Element. I've noticed users have had a hard time realizing the Element is a client for Matrix - even when they're actively chatting on Element. Usually they just refer to our chat by the homeserver's name.
What this tells me is that having a canonical primary client with the same name as the protocol would do wonders. This doesn’t rule out third party clients, it just clarifies matters for users who don’t necessarily know what a client is and have trouble conceptualizing the protocol/service/client divide. Those who are technical enough will seek out their favorite client, but for everybody else chatting on Matrix means downloading the Matrix app.
- No distinct voice channels with push-to-talk. Yes there's Jitsi, but it's not the same as the TeamSpeak/Ventrilo/Mumble style functionality that gamers have used for 20+ years. Solve this, and I think Matrix will see much more adoption for casual voice chat in the same manner as Discord.
- No server-specific display names. I have multiple screen names across multiple games/communities, and Discord accommodates that. Matrix (or at least Element+Synapse) does not.
- No path for server-specific invites. If I attempt to invite someone to myexamplehomeserver.net in the Element UI, they are instead directed to make a matrix.org account and are federated in. It works I guess, but it's shit for homeservers with closed registration that want to invite users to that homeserver. Writing an invite bot has been on my "I'll get around to it" list for a very long time now, and I know other homeserver admins have considered the same thing.
- E2EE is clunky. Yes, it is much better now. Yes, there are concerted efforts to improve this. Yes, it is an extremely hard problem. However, many times I have had users lose access to past messages because they were signed in to only one device and don't remember their keys. I understand the security aspirations, the proles do not and never will.
There are a lot of other little things like custom reactions, but I think the four above would do a lot to foster more Matrix adoption.
For $2/month you can spin up an instance on Pikapods, based on their community edition. If you want advanced features (available in enterprise editions) you'll need to figure out how to re-enable them by un-feature-flag-gate-ing the source code and recompiling (and at that point move hosting), or work it into the plugin system (which gives you tons of power)
It's not federated though
> It's not federated though
This is a big one for my server - our community has a handful of active "visitors" from other homeservers and the experience is pretty seamless.
The best time for advocacy is when people get burned. It's not a matter of if, but when. People learn through pain.
New billionaire owner takes over your favorite microblogging platform? Pain. Your clubhouse has been destroyed. You suddenly realize you didn't own anything.
New billionaire owner decides they don't like the topics you talk about and bans you? Pain. Your ability to express yourself and communicate and make connections with like-minded people has been destroyed. You suddenly realize that you actually need to get permission to talk to the people you want to talk to.
Massive data leak that includes your intimate personal information, photos and videos? Pain. Your privacy and personal life have been irrevocably violated. You suddenly realize that you don't control any of your own private information, and it actually isn't safe out there in those clouds. Even your most intimate whispers are recorded forever and will eventually be listened to by strangers or published on the cover of the New York Times.
The list of reasons to get the fuck off these corporate, centralized apps is growing every day.
In the old days it was easy. Get into computers, and the internet when it was there, and you would for sure only meet nerds.
Now you mostly meet hipsters.
Just at that early time there was this new field that nobody was really much interested in, but some geeky people were, and that is what united us.
And then we discovered we often shared common causes too, like freedom of information and nerdism.
But now our meeting spaces have been invaded by hipsters making use of the great tools we once created to help each other.
Of course this is not fun, but there is one good thing that might come out of this.
The hipsters might have invaded our spaces, but they are still óúr spaces. We created the fundamentals, and the reason for it's success praises our vision.
Maybe that vision will rub off on the hipsters a little bit, and they get a bit of a feeling of what real freedom is actually all about.
It might take a while, and it will still get worse before it gets better, but we might have set the stage for changing the world.
Sure it's not the same size as the "real web" but it's got no ads, less spam, less bots, and enough to people to blow out your dunbar ring and fill your cup.
You might never get to be a freelance marketer drop shipping some stupid crap - but that's a price some are willing to pay.
Getting paid $$$$ at bigtech companies to build the centralized web.
To keep us locked inside, they keep us locked inside
(Janelle Monae)
This is the people that build it.
"Oh, somebody made me do it"
Great excuse!
atproto, however, could learn a lot from torrents and all of the other protos since then. for example, their recent push to centralize bookmarks.
I'm highly involved in the private data work and we'll have a better bookmarks in the long run
I like that atprotocol sits in the middle of web 2 & 3, ideas from both without being beholden to either
(transactional semantics over accounts and xrpc calls)
Related pet-peeve: Folks who say "there's still great promise in private blockchains." This is equivalent to saying that self-balancing Segway-style devices can still become the dominant mode of transportation if we juuuuust make them bigger, enclosed, and add another pair of wheels so that they don't have to self-balance anymore.
Which areas support community‑owned or open‑access networks that enable multi‑ISP competition and affordable symmetric service (aka "true internet")?
Not so much. All the traffic from the US must transit through an earthbound surveillance hub, so the latency advantages are lost. Same with other countries.
(Please anyone correct me if I'm wrong about this, I was gravely disappointed to hear it and would love to hear that I'm wrong)
Sure, mistakes happen, but it's hard to take an article seriously when such fundamentals are messed up 8 words into the article...
The term "web3" was coined in 2014 by Ethereum co-founder Gavin Wood, and the idea gained interest in 2021 from cryptocurrency enthusiasts, large technology companies, and venture capital firms.
They have decentralised storage (Arweave), decentralized HTTP gateways (ar.io), and decentralised name service (ArNS).
Even though Bluesky did break through to the mainstream with ATProto, it's unclear how ATProto is either a functional or competitive benefit, or if its users even know about it.
Yes it is. It literally is. If we want to do that we can just do that. The internet is not a zero-sum game. We don't have to play to "win."
>I don't think another decen-HN is likely to take off or break into other self organizing segments even though this is easy to attempt with some Mastodon servers.
The only reason HN is popular is its connections to Silicon Valley and startup culture. It didn't really carve out a niche so much as succesfully create and market an image. Without that it isn't anything remarkable, and there are already tons of technically-focused communities on the fediverse.
That's exactly what Mastodon is. The whole reason mastodon exists is because a whole lot of people wanted exactly this experience.
Mastodon won't win because they aren't playing. Which again, is the whole point. It's extremely deliberate and intentional. People use mastodon because the "game" is abhorrent and objectively extremely bad for people individually and society as a whole.
So mastodon eschews the gamification and like farming and fake notifications. One of the most common jokes throughout the whole network is "wow, this post blew up and is doing Real Numbers" and the post has like ten boosts and twenty likes. It's extremely rare to see more than a couple hundred notes on any one post.
It's on purpose. Mastodon users like and actively want it to be this way.
Regardless, I think there's another thing that helped Bluesky: VC capital. In particular, to hire people to work on UX. It's a bit of a pet-peeve of mine, but I find it strange that designer don't contribute more to projects like Mastodon, which definitely need it. Even from the selfish angle of building a portfolio, helping solve Mastodon's UX challenges is much more impressive and realistic, than doing the millionth redesign of Gmail that will never get implemented.
PDS's to hold users data, relays/firehoses to aggregate & forward traffic, AppViews to create composite views of likes, replies, etc, resolvers to lookup DIDs, clients to access the network. Each of these has independent implementations. BlueSky is already decentralized & already has viable credible exit. It's not decentralized, and indeed the scalability & accessibility of having firehose consumers has the greatest scale out decentralization characteristics we've seen anywhere short of BitTorrent.
Right, but that's the entire point: Mastodon's UX problems are caused by its decentralization and mostly cannot be separated from it. Arguably all the problems of decentralization that make users disprefer it are UX problems-- that doesn't mean they are easy to solve.
Email?
bittorrent has webseeds. I dump large files and archives on my sever, give people the magnet or link it from an article, they download it fromthere. If for any reason I no longer want to host the file I just remove it. Usually I just want the space back, in theory there could be bandwidth issues or an excess of interested participants. You can put fairly interesting websites in torrents too! That no uninvited participant can find them is a feature not a bug.
Email does html too! PDF is also great for publishing. You can send people videos and even executables if you are close enough.
IMO it's not necessarily bad though. It prevents the network from becoming centered around content and keeps it social. You discover new accounts as they get reposted by people you are already connected to
But... it's all on Discord, not IRC or jabber or anything.
Mastodon captures perfectly what twitter was at the beginning. Just people talking to each other and having fun. Not performative like fishing or whatever. No ads, algorithms, endless feeds, AI slop, or spying and tracking.
It turns out that a lot of people think mainstream social media is objectively abhorrent and want to connect with other humans in a more natural and user-driven way.
Frankly, "mainstream" is a dirty, disgusting concept here. A very large fraction of users would put a significant amout of effort to prevent that from happening. If one server did become "mainstream", as mastodon dot social did, the network treats it as a damage and routes around. Many servers just cut them off because the vast majority of attacks and spam originate from the big public servers.
Mastodon won't go mainstream because they don't want to and the system fundamentally cannot operate that way. A few individual servers may go mainstream, but we'd eventually consider it a hard fork. The network would fracture (as it has many times) and the network of small servers will go back to the obscurity we enjoy and cherish.
Case in point: Facebook tried to force their way into the fediverse network through threads or whatever it was called. There was a pretty hard split in the network as nodes that value privacy and safety cut themselves off from a literal hostile invader. Many servers went recursively through the network to cut off any servers who hadn't blocked Facebook. I haven't heard anything about Facebook trying activitypub again, so I guess the quarantine was effective.
The only way to get people off the platform is to literally get hired and "trip over the cord" on purpose.. which at this point is likely going to involve very elevated permissions, and a really high chance of jail time.
each platform having your its own currency? well that's simply one nation. a federal government, registered at the UN. this translates the UN into Etherum, register your currency and be a part of what exactly?
But seriously, a network effect isn't necessarily the end of the industry. Lots of sites and services make major screw ups that drive away a lot of users to an alternative in some way or another, or outcompete a huge incumbent. Like what happened with Digg and Reddit.
Reddit is a bit different - but as far as the data is concerned it has not once dropped in usage and is about double what it was a couple years ago.
The bigger problem is having mega-entities like Google, Meta, and Amazon dominate the web. Instead of crypto, there should have been a focus on allowing mid-size players to have more power.
We have billions of data points conclusively showing that users don't care about nerd fantasies. No one cares if it's decentralized or not, if it's open source or not, if it's patent-encumbered or not. Maybe there are good philosophical reasons why people should care, but they don't.
So you can keep digging your hole, or you can build products that are simply good and happen to embrace your philosophy without that getting in the way of usability.
In this particular case, the dream the article is talking to was tainted even for the nerd audiences because of the sleaziness of a lot of what was happening under the banner of web 3.0.
From The Truth by Terry Pratchett, on a similar dilemma between pursuing the (journalistic) public-good versus satisfying the immediate desire of the average public:
> "Are you saying people aren't interested in the truth?"
> "Listen, what's true to a lot of people is that they need the money for the rent by the end of the week [...] This is a report of the annual meeting of the Ankh-Morpork Caged Birds Society [...] They've got no say in who runs the city but they can damn well see to it that cockatoos aren't lumped in with parrots. It's not their fault. It's just how things are."
> [...] "It's important! Someone has to care about the... the big truth. [...] if they don't care about anything much beyond things that go squawk in cages then one day there'll be someone in charge of this place who'll make them choke on their own budgies. You want that to happen?"
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Our civilization is filled with uncountable things that were once "nerd fantasies" that the average person doesn't even remotely care about... Until it all goes tragically wrong.
Expanded portion:
> "Someone has to care about the... the big truth. What Vetinari mostly does not do is a lot of harm. We’ve had rulers who were completely crazy and very, very nasty. And it wasn’t that long ago, either. Vetinari might not be ‘a very nice man,’ but I had breakfast today with someone who'd be a lot worse if he ran the city, and there are lots more like him. And what’s happening now is wrong. And as for your damn parrot fanciers [...]"
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With respect to "we've had rulers", a bit from a previous book Men At Arms:
> "[...] He wielded the axe, you know. No-one else'd do it. It was a king's neck, after all. Kings are," he spat the word, "special. Even after they'd seen the... private rooms, and cleaned up the... bits. Even then. No-one'd clean up the world. But he took the axe and cursed them all and did it."
> "What king was it?" said Carrot.
> "Lorenzo the Kind," said Vimes, distantly.
> "I've seen his picture in the palace museum," said Carrot. "A fat old man. Surrounded by lots of children."
> "Oh yes," said Vimes, carefully. "He was very fond of children."
Trying to commandeer the attention of the attendees like that is simply disrespectful; it doesn't matter how important you think what you have to say is. Unless the building is on fire or there's an armed squad standing outside, whatever he had to say could have waited until the end, and whoever wanted to listen to it could have stuck around, and whoever didn't could leave.
Ah, I see the confusion, no, they're running an actual newspaper. The coworker is (literally) holding up a report for another organization which might become material for an article, as an example of the kinds of things their readers care about more than politics.
Alas, the 2-hour edit window is closed, so:
> She held up a piece of lined paper, crammed edge to edge with the careful looped handwriting of someone for whom holding a pen was not a familiar activity. "This is a report of the annual meeting of the Ankh-Morpork Caged Birds Society," she said. "They're just ordinary people who breed canaries and things as a hobby. Their chairman lives next door to me, which is why he gave me this. This stuff is important to him! My goodness, but it's dull. It's all about Best of Breed and some changes in the rules about parrots which they argued about for two hours. But the people who were arguing were people who mostly spend their day mincing meat or sawing wood and basically leading little lives that are controlled by other people, do you see? They've got no say in who runs the city but they can damn well see to it that cockatoos aren't lumped in with parrots. It's not their fault. It's just how things are. Why are you sitting there with your mouth open like that?"
I fear this is the reason why intellectual discourse seems to have stagnated. We no longer pursue the spirit of important ideas but try to endlessly put them in uninteresting boxes.
That's 100% BS. There is no such data or research. All the 'users don't care about x' comments all hold about as much water as if I were to claim `North Koreans don't care about basic freedoms`.
This is focused on the technical aspects as if this is why people go to the big platforms. It is not the why for where they are or where they will go.
(1) The big platforms came first, most people don't know there are different ways for humans to organize social media.
(2) They have desires to leave for greener pastures, they know these companies don't have their best interest in mind.
We need a viable alternative and ATProto is in the best position right now. I have been able to get people excited and even create an account, knowing that the better way forward is still very young and a work in progress. I talk to them about features at the conceptual level, never about federation or any of that gobbledygook that they don't understand or want to
But I'm not sure I'd write the decentralised web off yet. A lot of the issues it's faced are UX and design problems more than fundamental issues, and the way the world is going makes it seem like a comeback could be inevitable at some point.
After all, a good federated or decentralised system could be resistant to the age gating laws in places like the UK and Australia at the moment, and be a lot more tolerant of content that's critical of those in power than Twitter or Reddit would be (like with criticism of Israel and the goings on in Gaza, criticism of Trump and his administration, protests against authoritarian regimes worldwide, etc).
Large social media services are very willing to bend the knee to those with power (both political and corporate), while a more decentralised service may very well not be, especially if either the people using it are hard to identify or the infrastructure is spread across the world/in places with much more lax laws.
I love that on the regular old internet I can stand up different websites, host them myself, and have anyone with a web connection be able to pull it up on their computer and see whatever it is I'm putting out there. There is some level of centralization if I want to buy a domain name or do other certain things, but it's pretty minimal and I feel mostly in control, at least for the kind of things I want to do.
That kind of standing up my own little server and running it myself while being accessible over the broader web feels decentralized. I can put whatever I want, you can put whatever you want, anyone can access it. Buying into some more distributed web3 type hosting feels more centralized at least in the way that I personally feel. I have to buy into a specific blockchain or platform, host in a specific way, hope that it gets picked up by other distributors, deal with hashing and immutability, etc. Maybe it's a difference in understanding of the word decentralized, or a different emphasis on certain parts of the definition.
I'm 100% OK with "Web3" dying a slow death. Garbage in, garbage out.
tolerance•4h ago
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nostrademons•3h ago
I think that what killed that is that hyperlinks work great for browsing & discovery, but as the web matures, a lot of people want to use it for task-oriented things. And all of the Big Tech companies that came afterwards succeeded because they built a task-oriented interface that co-opted the links that were there before and turned them into ways to accomplish the task. Google took hyperlinks, used them to compute PageRank, and then used that to create a better way to solve the task of finding specific information. Facebook took user activity, aggregated it, presented it in a feed, and used it to improve the task of killing time. Amazon took product pages and direct links and used them as lead-gen to increase the ease with which you can buy things. Stripe took embedded Javascript and used it to make paying for things easier; Uber and Lyft took mobile phones and used it to make transportation easier; AirBnB took these large Internet markets and used it to make vacation rentals easier.
Where all these decentralization efforts fall down is that they tend to focus on content, the technical details of how they're going to spread bytes around, and nobody focuses on the task. It'd be interesting to recast the problem in terms of "Here's a common task of everyday life; how do you accomplish it in an adversarial environment where the government or major corporations are trying to shut off the Internet?"
tolerance•3h ago
Nice observation and can speak to why anyone intent on selling you content writes a “user story” to outline the tasks that lead to a purchase or engagement.
stahorn•3h ago
London was known for having so thick fog from burning coal, and in 1952 it was such a bad event that 4k people died and 100k got badly affected from it. It is was started the Clean Air Act of 1956, that eventually led to clean (cleaner?) air in London.
Another one is Amsterdam. It was a car-centric city up until the 70s, where they started to rebuild it to be a walkable and cyclable city. This started because people protested the dangerous roads, which culminated with the "Stop de Kindermoord" protest.
Maybe if we live long enough, we get to experience a decentralized web again. Next time will come when it's supported by laws, that in turn stand atop a large understanding in the population of why those laws are good and needed.
tolerance•3h ago
I have a particular interest group in mind here, who lament the current state of the Web to an extent unique to our time. It seems like they’re upset with their loss of agency/authority online. When a free, ad-less *.blogspot.com or LiveJournal presence could net you some clout you’d be precluded from otherwise in the real world.
Take for example any evidence of disapproval you may find from the proponents of ActivityPub toward the development of the AT Protocol in parallel. Also notice how moderation features on these federated platforms essentially centralize them and their respective enclaves. The desire for interoperability between social media platforms conflicts with the imminent re-siloing being examined. Or is it just the same ends with new wiry means attached?
“Decentralization” in this context seems more like separating from the whole with the hopes of replacing it. And I’m not confident that these many new “wholes” can resist jockeying one after the other for political influence.