I don't think anyone is forced to live in the bay area. For what you spend to live in the bay area, you could just buy a really nice house in the midwest and raise a family.
https://www.zillow.com/homedetails/402-W-Prospect-St-Kewanee...
Let's check the boxes here:
Walkable
Public transportation (Amtrak station)
Fiber internet
Blue state politics
And this isn't like a cheap house. This is the second most expensive house in town.
randycupertino•2h ago
> Since 2018, the share of young U.S. adults who say they are unlikely to ever have kids increased from 37% to 47% in 2023.