If you constantly solve all the problems that come it can be stifling for the people you manage.
edit: I am not critiquing enthusiasm itself, but a compulsion that can be productive and unhealthy.
As a fellow traveller, I offer one caution: learn to turn this down in personal relationships as it can be counterproductive. It took decades for my wife to finally get through and explain not every problem she voices is something that needs a solution. Some times people just want to be heard. It bugs the hell out of me because I tend to need to solve All The Problems before I can do any self-care, but rather than seem heroic, I think this attitude can seem transactional or uncaring as though everyone is just a screw that needed a bit of tightening, etc.
ChrisMarshallNY•1h ago