Actually one Dunbar number of gorillas vs one Dunbar number of humans could be a good spin on this meme.
Which would make it a lot harder.
If you are successful and established, friendship often means obligation. Money, skill, resources and effort are requested, sometimes politely, sometimes not.
If you are not successful and established, finding someone to engage in this relationship can provide significant advantage.
Some might say "a real friend would not ask such things, what you speak of are fairweather friends."
I would reply, "have you ever found your perfect equal in a friendship?"
I haven't.
In my experience, if you somehow keep some of your close friends that you had early in life, some of them end up eerily similar to you late in life.
> I would reply, "have you ever found your perfect equal in a friendship?"
I guess the point of friendships is to find people with whom the exchange is fair. As in, I have something they want, they have something I want, we exchange this.
The transactional relationship is a different thing, it is a business relationship. You don't have to be a friend with someone you exchange things with.
All of our behaviors were ruthlessly selected by evolution in the 60k years since we emerged as a species.
The behaviors were never about the individual. We kept them because they reproduced.
This last paragraph is almost hidden by the ads, but worth reading.
It reads in exactly the same tone as you'd get for an obit of a small town mayor, CEO, or really any leader.
If you properly look around and sometimes go deeper than pleasant very few people are uncritically good people from various angles.
Need to? Maybe not. But I can imagine the folks who studied these animals feeling a similar sort of attachment and desire to portray positivity in writing a gorilla obituary.
“Dude you ate my newborn baby.”
apt-apt-apt-apt•8h ago
Ah, this must explain why I have rarely been sick these days.
N2yhWNXQN3k9•8h ago
Because you are a gorilla?