A college degree can be expensive, and it does not guarantee a job, plus you have a huge student loan to pay off. That is why American Men think it is not worth it to go to college anymore.
There are plenty of "minorities" with DEI potential going to college and succeeding in lofty goals. The pipeline is full of men and women alike, but many of our generation and the next ones are not enjoying success.
I feel this is a case of ethnic/tribal class decline. (Perhaps I am about to touch a Great Replacement third-rail!) Mental illness and homelessness and career troubles are plaguing people like me, and we can't quite put our finger on it, but the truth is that we find ourselves part of an outgroup, and the ingroups are jostling for position in society, and there's simply not enough elbow room for everyone.
I see a lot of White Men in similar situations who can salvage their lives if they go to a vocational school, and get into a decent and steady blue-collar job. That's assuming that they won't be plagued by mental illness or an inability to marry or have relationships. Guys can do alright for themselves with no college at all.
In pondering my own troubles, which involve all of the above and more, I'm confident in a few things: it's not my fault. Nothing I could've done would have reversed my fortune. And we need to wake up to this reality, that Living the American Dream and achieving more and more with each generation, these are not realistic goals for people like you and me.
From what I see, power/wealth in the US is still disproportionately held by white men. The balance may be shifting, but a slight reduction in privilege towards the average is not the same as becoming outgroup.
There is nothing to be gained from bitterness at being the last to rudely awaken from the American Dream.
The people who hoard all the money that's actually depriving you of stability have trained you with identity politics to think of these as issues that affect people "like you" rather than affecting everyone outside their top 1% in-group, regardless of identity.
jnord•5h ago