A few things every man in a relationship has (or should) learn.

1. Focus first on building intimacy, trust, and connection with your partner. 2. Invest your partners their happiness as well as your own. 3. Take care of yourself and communicate your needs. 4. Find out what works for your relationship and keep doing that consistently.

You get laid far more often.

Sounds like we are blaming the lads once again! Oh well.