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New study finds users are marrying and having virtual children with AI chatbots

https://www.psypost.org/new-study-finds-users-are-marrying-and-having-virtual-children-with-ai-chatbots/
27•giuliomagnifico•1h ago

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theoldgreybeard•48m ago
Just send the meteor already.
grafmax•28m ago
Extremely lonely people being exploited by sociopathic corporations for profit. Sounds like a baby and the bathwater scenario to me.
srameshc•48m ago
AI if unregulated could be a lot more worse than social media. My kid after his first chat with AI said, he is my new friend. I was alarmed and explain him but what about the parents and guardians who are unaware how the kids are befriending the AI. Part of the problem is also how it is trained to be nice and encouraging. I am sure there are researchers who are talking about it but the question is are the policy makers listening to them ?
giuliomagnifico•37m ago
“Regulate”? We can’t, and shouldn’t, regulate everything. Policymakers should focus on creating rules that ensure data safety, but if someone over 18 years wants to marry a chatbot… well, that’s their (stupid) choice.

Instead of trying to control everything, policymakers should educate people about how these chatbots work and how to keep their data safe. After all, not everyone who played Doom in the ’90s became a real killer, or assaults women because of YouPorn.

Society will adapt to these ridiculous new situations…what truly matters is people’s awareness and understanding.

tossandthrow•14m ago
You are using an incredibly poor rhetoric technique and setting up a strawman.

This is not about regulating everything.

This is about realizing adverse effects and regulating for those.

Just like no one is selling you toxic youghurt.

potato3732842•8m ago
People think that we can just magically regulate everything. It's like a medieval peasant who doesn't understand chemistry/physics/etc thinking they can just pray harder to have better odds of something.

We literally CAN'T regulate some things for any reasonable definition of "can't" or "regulate". Our society is either not rich enough or not organized in a way to actually do it in any useful capacity and not make the problem worse.

I'm not saying AI chatbots are one of those things, but people toss around the idea of regulation way too casually and AI chatbots are way less cut and dry than bad food or toxic waste or whatever other extreme anyone wants to misleadingly project down into the long tail of weird stuff with potential for unintended consequences elsewhere.

giuliomagnifico•7m ago
[delayed]
syntaxing•12m ago
I understand what you’re saying but it’s a difficult balance. Not saying everything needs to be regulated and not saying we should be full blown neoliberalism. But think of some of “social” laws we have today (in the US). No child marriages, no child labor, no smoking before 19, and no drinking before 21. These laws are in place because we understand that those who can exploit will do the exploiting. Those who can be exploited will be exploited. That being said, I don’t agree with any of the age verification policies here with adult material. Honestly not sure what the happy medium is.
UtopiaPunk•9m ago
We can, and we should, regulate some things. AI has, quite suddenly, built up billions of dollars worth of infrastructure and become pervasive in people's daily lives. Part of how society adapts to ridiculous new situations is through regulations.

I'm not proposing anything specifically, but the implication that this field should not be regulated is just foolish.

Taganov•12m ago
With the current acceleration of technology this is a repeating pattern. The new thing popular with kids is not understood by the parents before it is too late.

It kind of happened for me with online games. They were a new thing, and no one knew to what degree they could be addicting and life damaging. As a result I am probably over protective of my own kids when it comes to anything related to games.

We are already seeing many of the effects of the social media generation and I am not looking forward to what is going to happen to the AI natives whose guardians are ill-prepared to guide them. In the end, society will likely come to grips with it, but the test subjects will pay a heavy price.

BinaryIgor•6m ago
100%; it's probably wise to default to better-to-be-conservative-than-sorry policy, at least as of now.
potato3732842•3m ago
A whole generation turned out fine after murdering hookers in GTA before the industry came up with loot boxes.

How do we know which era of AI we're in?

hartator•11m ago
Would you have been concerned if he said the plush was his new friend? Calling policy makers to ban plush?

You have to be careful to not overreact to things.

conception•47m ago
https://www.reddit.com/r/MyBoyfriendIsAI/ in the wild. Rough stuff.
qwertytyyuu•34m ago
I'm glad to not have seen a r/MyBabyIsAI yet
lotsofpulp•24m ago
The linked study is of 29 “people” (assuming they are real).

How do we know if these examples aren’t just the 0.1% of the population that is, for all intend and purposes, “out there”?

So much of “news” is just finding these corner cases that evoke emotion, but ultimately have no impact.

conception•4m ago
The outcry when 4o was discontinued was such that open AI kept it on paying subscriptions. There are at least enough people attached to certain AI voices that it warrants a tech startup spending the resources to keep an old model around. That’s probably not an insignificant population.
mothballed•17m ago
It's better than paying alimony and child support to someone that hates you.
hartator•4m ago
You rather have AI relationships instead of actual kids?
TrackerFF•30m ago
Turns out Her wasn’t set in such a distant future.
skylurk•27m ago
Turns out there's a Him, too.
ktallett•29m ago
It feels like a more evolved version of those who have what they consider to be relationships with anime characters or virtual idols in Japan. Often treating a doll or lifesize pillow replica of that character as someone the person can interact and spend time with. Obviously like the AI, the fact it is so common does suggest that it must be filling a unmet need in the person and I guess the key focus needs to be how do we help those stuck in that situation to become unstuck and how do we help those feel that unmet need is fulfilled?
BinaryIgor•1m ago
Exactly; it's just a much more powerful medium to express one of the oldest and perennial of society problems
Qem•24m ago
Skynet could easily win in Terminator by sending a virtual boyfriend to Sarah Connor, instead of sending a trigger-happy cyborg after her.
zug_zug•15m ago
Of course the loneliest 5% are going to do something like this. If it weren't for AI they'd be writing twilight fan-fic and roleplaying it on some chatroom, or giving all their money to a "saudi prince."

Seems like nothing new, just a better or more immersive form of fantasy for those who can't have the life they fantasize about.

olivierestsage•9m ago
I'd argue it'd be psychologically healthier to roleplay in a chatroom with people who are human on the other end (if that could be guaranteed, which it no longer can).
notepad0x90•15m ago
Is this neccesarily a bad thing? I think a lot of people assume these same people would have developed relationships with humans otherwise. How many of these people are better off this way? That'd be an interesting study. I've read a couple of articles on how the "loneliness epidemic" is driving down life expectancy. Could AI chatbots negate that?

"It's not real", yeah, that is weird for sure. But I also find wrestling fans weird, they know it's not real and enjoy it anyways. Even most sports, people take it a lot more seriously than they should.

fragmede•9m ago
> Is this neccesarily a bad thing?

Yes?

giraffe_lady•9m ago
Something I use as a heuristic that is pretty reliable is "am I treating a thing like a person, or a person like a thing?" If so then, maybe not necessarily bad but probably bad.

It's not about whether it's "real" or not. In this case of AI relationships, extremely sophisticated and poorly understood mechanisms of social-emotional communication and meaning making that have previously only ever been used for bonding with other people, and to a limited extent animals, are being directed at a machine. And we find that the mechanisms respond to that machine as if there is a person there, when there is not.

There is a lot of novel stuff happening there, technologically, socially, psychologically. We don't really know, and I don't trust anyone who is confidently predicting, what effects that will have on the person doing it, or their other social bonds.

Wrestling is theater! It's an ancient craft, well understood. If you're going to approach AI relationships as a natural extension of some well established human activity probably pet bonding is the closest. I don't think it's even that close though.

everdrive•7m ago
We're stuck in a really perverse collective-action problem. And, we keep doing this to ourselves. These technologies are not enriching our lives, but once they're adopted we either use them, or voluntarily fall behind. There seems to be very little general philanthropy in this regard.
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