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Dual Income, No Kids: What We Know About 'DINKs' in the U.S.

https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/11/03/dual-income-no-kids-what-we-know-about-dinks-in-the-us/
6•karakoram•2h ago

Comments

andsoitis•1h ago
SINK is more interesting than DINK. In a SINK household, the individual who doesn’t earn money can make an impact in the world of art, community service, research, the possibilities are endless. Without the tethers of employment.
Schiendelman•50m ago
Employed people can do that too. I suspect that people who are employed have higher impact on their non-work goals because they've learned to structure their time and prioritize more ruthlessly than people who don't have that pressure.
andsoitis•48m ago
Sure, but You have way more hours in the day when you don’t have a job. If your partner has one, you have more degrees of freedom.
c22•42m ago
When my kids were young and I took a break from regular employment to be a stay-at-home dad I still ran a non-profit on the side. There might have been a couple stressful nights where both the wife and I had some deadline and we let the kids watch too much TV in the evening, but largely having kids didn't impact my ability to do this at all.

When I regained regular employment I did find I needed to pass the torch on the non-profit to keep my sanity, so there's something to the idea that society loses out when everyone needs a full-time job.

Hiko0•1h ago
They get themselves cats or dogs, call themselves cat/dog mom/dad because they want the illusion of another living being loving them without the struggles, parenthood brings. I think it‘s pathetic.
DeltaCoast•56m ago
No mention of pets in the article, beyond the photo, so your comment is unnecessarily spiteful. I'm not a pet owner, nor a DINK for the record.
estimator7292•53m ago
I think it's pathetic that you can't find meaning in your own individual life without creating a new human to live vicariously through.

Doubly pathetic that you can't envision any other way of thinking and experiencing life. Have you actually thought out and considered your position or is this simply a lazy knee-jerk opinion that you've had fed to you?

Awfully small minded and pathetic to think that your chosen way of life is the One True and Acceptable Way. It's a very immature mind that can't accept differing opinions and perspectives.

CoastalCoder•50m ago
Your post covers a lot of ground, but I'd like to respond to one part of it:

IMHO: except in pathological situations, dogs truly love their owners.

estearum•48m ago
You sound like someone who regrets having kids tbh

(coming from a happy parent and dog caretaker)

cursuve•28m ago
Wait... So because I chose a life of not struggling to raise a child and I love my dog; I'm pathetic? What a warped-ass world-view. Maybe I just have no desire to have kids and am enjoying the life not having children warrants me - including pathetically loving my dog. Eff off with your judgements of what I chose the path of my life to be. And, hey, godspeed on your struggle-bus. Apparently it warrants you some entitlements and status, or something...
wormpilled•4m ago
>Wait... So because I chose a life of not struggling to raise a child and I love my dog; I'm pathetic?

It's brutal to say such things and certainly to hear them, but objectively, yes.

c22•36m ago
> DINKs are also more likely than dual-income couples with kids to be college graduates...

This is the premise of Idiocracy.

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