Replaying commits one-by-one is like a history quiz. It forces me to remember what was going on a week ago when I did commit #23 out of 45. I'm grateful that git stores that history for me when I need it, but I don't want it to force me to interact with the history. I've long since expelled it from my brain, so that I can focus on the current state of the codebase. "5 commits ago, did you mean to do that, or can we take this other change?" I don't care, I don't want to think about it.

Of course, this issue can be reduced by the "squash first, then rebase" approach. Or judicious use of "git commit --amend --no-edit" to reduce the number of commits in my branch, therefore making the rebase less of a hassle. That's fine. But what if I didn't do that? I don't want my tools to judge me for my workflow. A user-friendly tool should non-judgmentally accommodate whatever convenient workflow I adopted in the past.

Git says, "oops, you screwed up by creating 50 lazy commits, now you need to put in 20 minutes figuring out how to cleverly combine them into 3 commits, before you can pull from main!" then I'm going to respond, "screw you, I will do the next-best easier alternative". I don't have time for the judgement.

I know a lot of people want to maintain the history of each PR, but you won't need it in your VCS.

You should always be able to roll back main to a real state. Having incremental commits between two working stages creates more confusion during incidents.

If you need to consult the work history of transient commits, that can live in your code review software with all the other metadata (such as review comments and diagrams/figures) that never make it into source control.

I tend to rebase my unpushed local changes on top of upstream changes. That's why rebase exists. So you can rewrite your changes on top of upstream changes and keep life simple for consumers of your changes when they get merged. It's a courtesy to them. When merging upstream changes gets complicated (lots of conflicts), falling back to merging gives you more flexibility to fix things.

The resulting pull requests might get a bit ugly if you merge a lot. One solution is squash merging when you finally merge your pull request. This has as the downside that you lose a lot of history and context. The other solution is to just accept that not all change is linear and that there's nothing wrong with merging. I tend to bias to that.

If your changes are substantial, conflict resolution caused by your changes tends to be a lot easier for others if they get lots of small commits, a few of which may conflict, rather than one enormous one that has lots of conflicts. That's a good reason to avoid squash merges. Interactive rebasing is something I find too tedious to bother with usually. But some people really like those. But that can be a good middle ground.

It's not that one is better than the other. It's really about how you collaborate with others. These tools exist because in large OSS projects, like Linux, where they have to deal with a lot of contributions, they want to give contributors the tools they need to provide very clean, easy to merge contributions. That includes things like rewriting history for clarity and ensuring the history is nice and linear.

Branches that people are expected to track (i.e. pull from or merge into their regularly) should never rebase/force-push.

Branches that are short-lived or only exist to represent some state can do so quite often.

Besides, Magit rebasing is also pretty sweet.

No. In one reality, you got married with no dog, and in another reality you got a dog and didn't marry. Then you merged those two realities into P.

Going "back in time to commit D" is already incorrect phrasing, because you're implying linear history where one does not exist. It's more like you're switching to an alternate past.