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AI Companion Piece

https://thezvi.substack.com/p/ai-companion-piece
62•jsnider3•6h ago

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amradio1989•3h ago
I'm of the opinion that only humans are suitable companions for humans. Not dogs, not birds, not cats, and definitely not chatbots. This message needs to be stated more strongly, but its against a ruling power's interest to do so.

So here we are.

luckylion•3h ago
What about people who don't have human companions? Should they not have any companionship at all over having dogs, birds, cats, or chatbots?
MattGrommes•2h ago
The problem I see is that since the chatbots are so easy to chat with, some people use them before they even try to do the work at getting human companionship. It almost never true that it's impossible for a person to find other people to be friends with or chat with. I've known plenty of people who said they would never find a companion due to X, Y, and Z intractable reasons but who stumbled into strong relationships anyway. A chatbot is "companionship" in the same way candy is food.

I think animal companions are a different class than chatbots since they're not trying to be people so I make no comment on those.

luckylion•2h ago
> before they even try to do the work at getting human companionship

Why do they have to "do the work" to be deserving of companionship when most of us don't have to do anything because it comes natural to us and we can relatively easily regulate the amount of companionship we want.

I fail to see the bad thing. For some people it's either a chatbot (or a dog) or no interaction at all. Should people starve instead of eating at McDonald's because that's "not real food"?

chowells•1h ago
Chatbots are on a different list than the rest of those. Animals aren't human companionship, but they're still physical beings with physical needs that interact with you on their own schedule for their own reasons.

My cat will harass me if I'm on my computer after midnight. It's time to put the technology away and lie down where she can keep an eye on me. She's quite clear on this point. This is an entire category of interaction not available to chatbots. There is a difference in level of reality.

And when lacking human companionship, grounding to reality is really important. You've got to get out of your head sometimes.

bagrow•3h ago
> I cannot distinguish between the love I have for people and the love I have for dogs.

- Kurt Vonnegut.

Der_Einzige•3h ago
The people who old the kinds of opinion that the OP of this comment chain holds also tend to hold the belief that you should put Kurt Vonnegut, and other "liberal intellectuals" backs against the wall.
zemvpferreira•3h ago
I love my dog more than most people, but no dog will slap a needle from my arm, a drink from my mouth or a ring from my finger.
throwthatway46•3h ago
My dog is sad and distant after I take (legally prescribed) ketamine. It has definitely discouraged my use.

Dogs aren't people, but being with a dog is way better than being chronically alone. They can be training wheels to rejoining society.

svieira•3h ago
The fact that Mr. Vonnegut did not sufficient distinguish between various aspects of love does not mean that there are not distinctions between the love proper between a son and his mother and between a man and his dog. Simply saying "I wish what is best for my mother and what is best for my dog and there is no difference in that wish" is all well and good as far as it goes, but it leaves quite a lot on the table untalked about.
bloqs•2h ago
ability to differentiate != lack of differentiation
raincole•2h ago
> its against a ruling power's interest to do so.

What does it mean lol. If there is a button to make people find human companions the ruling class would press it so hard just to raise birthrate (= more working class).

add-sub-mul-div•2h ago
I think they're saying that AI is the new frontier of them extracting wealth from the rest of us, so it's in their interest to push AI companionship.
AIPedant•2h ago
The problem with chatbots as companions is that they don’t have feelings or desires, so you can be as malicious and selfish as you want: the worse that will happen is some temporary context rot. This is not true for dogs, cats, humans, etc, which is why we can form meaningful companionships with our friends and our pets. Genuine companionship involves dozens of tiny insignificant compromises (e.g. sitting through a boring movie that your friend is interested in), and without that ChatGPT cannot be a companion. It’s a toy.

I am not opposed to chatbots for people who are so severely disabled that they can’t take care of cats, e.g. dementia. But otherwise AI companions are akin to friendship as narcotics are akin to happiness: a highly pleasant (but profoundly unhealthy) substitute.

jjmarr•1h ago
What other disabilities can acceptably use a companion? Autism? Social anxiety? Bipolar disorder? Many of these make it difficult to maintain relationships.
handfuloflight•1h ago
> so you can be as malicious and selfish as you want

So just system prompt in non-spineless characteristics into the AI.

jerf•2h ago
So the piece exhorts us a couple of times to try to just think neutrally about this stuff, and I get the point, but at the same time, can anyone in 2025 think that it's just going to be best most altruistic people armed with highly persuasive AIs who just want to use those AI to persuade us to act in our own best interests, rather than the people who own and are running the AIs?

Like, I have a hard time even strawmanning such a position. Of course people armed with highly persuasive AIs will task those AIs into doing what is best for the people who own the AIs and the odds of that happening to line up with your own interests are fairly low. What the hell else are they going to do with them?

But then, keep gaming it out. This particular thing isn't exactly completely new. We've seen bumps in persuasiveness before. Go back and watch a commercial from the 1950s. It's hard to believe it would have done a darned thing, but at the time people had not yet had to develop defenses against it.

We had to develop defenses. We're going to have to develop more.

What I forsee as the endgame is not that we become mindless robots completely run by AIs... or, at least, not all of us... but that we enter into a world where we simply can't trust anything. Anywhere. At all. How does any being, human or otherwise, function in an infosphere where an exponentially large proportion of it is nothing but persuasion attempts, hand-crafted by the moral equivalent of a team of PhDs personally dedicated to controlling me? Obviously humanity has never had a golden age where you could truly just trust something you heard, and we can argue about the many and sundry collective failures to judge the veracity of various claims, but it's still going to be a qualitative change when our TV programs are designed by AIs to persuade us, and the web is basically custom assembling itself in front of us to persuade us, and all of our books are AI-generated to persuade us, and literally no stone is left unturned in the ever-escalating goal to use every available channel to change our behavior to someone else's benefit.

When does trying to become informed become an inevitable net negative because you're literally better off knowing nothing?

What happens when the bulk of society finally realizes we've hit that point?

jsnider3•2h ago
Zvi's an AI-doomer, so he sees the endgame as AI becoming smart enough that they don't need us anymore and then killing us to take our stuff, but your scenario is also pretty bad.
Terr_•1h ago
Speaking in generalities, some source of "doom" are really covert marketing, where Thing X is so amazing and magical that nobody can risk not investing in it, paying attention to it, or constantly talking with their friends about it.
oceanofsolaris•34m ago
I don’t think you can really accuse the lesswrong crowd of being in it to hype up OpenAI.

They don’t profit from it (well at least the current doom crowd), they have been saying that this is super-risky since “forever” (15 years), they strongly argue against e.g. OpenAI going private … I really don’t understand where this whole strand of thinking of hidden ulteriour motives for AI doomers comes from, AFAIK there was never a single clear case where this happened (and the arc of people invested in AI is they they become less of a doomer the more financially entangled they become with AI, see Elon or Altman).

reducesuffering•9m ago
It's so common for people to throw out those accusations, despite zero evidence from the lesswrong crowd, because they need explanations that are way more comforting than facing down the scary implication that lesswrong "doomers" are right.

One thought path leads to business-as-usual comfort, happily motivated by trillions of $ in market cap and VC.

The other is dread.

It makes sense why people take the easy road. We're still battling climate change denialism after all.

johnnienaked•2h ago
I think you get to the point of authoritarianism. A trustless society is not a functioning one, unless people are forced to function.
AnimalMuppet•40m ago
Here is my Bayesian version of this: If you have lies coming at you in high enough volume, you cannot update your priors at all, or else you will eventually come to believe the lie.

But then you have the problem: If you won't update your priors, and neither will someone else, but they have different priors than you, how can you talk to them?

But I'm maybe a bit less cynical than you. I think (maybe I'm kidding myself) that I can to some degree detect... something.

If someone built a parallel universe of false journal articles written by false experts, and then false news articles that referred to the false journal articles, and then false or sockpuppet users to point people to the news articles, that would be very hard to detect if it was done well. (A very persistent investigator might realize that the false experts either came from non-existent universities, or from universities that denied that the experts existed.) But often it isn't done well at all. Often it's "hey, here's this inadequately supported thing that disagrees with your priors that everybody is hyping". For me, "solidly disagrees with my solidly-held priors" is enough to give it a very skeptical look, and that's often enough to turn up the "inadequately supported" part. So I can at least sometimes detect something that looks like this, and avoid listening and believing it.

I'm hoping that that's enough to avoid "When does trying to become informed become an inevitable net negative because you're literally better off knowing nothing?" But we shall see.

jerf•24m ago
It's the team of PhDs dedicated to me personally part that gets me.

In the current world, and the world for the next few years, the amount of human and CPU time that can be aimed at me personally is still low enough that what "real reality" generates outweighs the targeted content, and even the targeted content is clearly more accurately modeled by a lot of semi-smart people just throwing stuff at the wall and hoping to hook "someone" who may not be me personally. We talk about PhDs getting kids to click ads, and there's some truth to that, but at least there isn't anything like a human-brain-equivalent dedicated to getting my kids, personally, to click on ads. I have a lot of distrust of a lot of things but at least I can attack the content with the fact that needing to appeal broadly still keeps the content somewhat grounded in some sort of reality.

But over time, my personal brainpower isn't going to go up but the amount of firepower aimed directly at me is.

The good news is that it probably won't be unitary, just as the targeting today isn't unitary. But I'd like something better than that. And playing them against each other gets harder when the targeting becomes aware of that impact and they start compensating for that, because now they have the firepower to aim at me personally and do that sort of compensation.

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