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I Spent Twenty Years Becoming Good at the Wrong Game

https://savvynormie.com/i-spent-twenty-years-becoming-good-at-the-wrong-game/
22•speckx•1h ago

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Ouman•24m ago
A lot of careers have very effective feedback loops for telling you that you're progressing, while being almost completely silent on whether the destination is one you actually want
jdpigeon•19m ago
Well said. When I was a grad student, chasing what would have been a doomed career in cellular neuroscience, I was unfortunate enough (fortunately in the end, perhaps?) to get struck down by a significant depressive episode. This ended up being the feedback signal I needed to consider changing things up, and I did.
bluGill•11m ago
In the end you will die. Religion can possibly offer you something for after death (depending on if you choose the correct one - this is an argument I am intentionally avoiding even though I have opinions). Very few people have a career in religion and thus for most your career will have nothing to say.

Genetically if you don't have kids you are a dead end. You career will have some bearing on the life you give you kids (if you have any, I'm not trying to say you should!) but otherwise I believe it should stay out of your kids life.

Similar to the above, most people live with a married spouse (common law marriage: a legal marriage is not required for this discussion, though it may or may not matter for other purposes). While many people do meet their spouse through their career this is not required and the career itself has nothing to say about it. (historically kings and queens did marry for career reasons)

Note that both kids and a spouse implies you shouldn't allow your career to take up too much time even though many will try to.

Many people have hobbies. Even if you love the things you do at work, odds are your mind cannot handle doing it once you are done with work: your career cannot tell you anything about them. There are many people who pick a career because the things like love cannot support the life they otherwise want to live: their career can't tell them about the destination because it is purely something they do to get there.

All of this is to say that even if your career would offer you help on the destination, you should ignore it.

21asdffdsa12•6m ago
Its more complicated. Even somebody who is a dead end- can feed back into a extended clan-family and thus enrich the survival of related traits.

And when you contribute to a societey that overproduces resources, thrives scientifically and does not carry a load of parasites, then your career actions may push the cohort fitness.

This of course implies that the offspring of dedicated focus personal has desert flower traits- meaning every offspring will be dumb as a rock, and pro at procreation. Meaning clever people will have "Hippie" pregnant machine offspring and the "spiritual" birth-machines will have hyper-analytical "dead-enders". None of them happy with the state of the world.

Life as they say- finds a way- to make you despair with the result of the affair.

xyzelement•18m ago
I have a horrid memory of interviewing "a kid" for an entry level engineering job during on-campus recruitment. The "kid" had just finished his PhD in chemistry following a master's and bachelor's in the same field.

He was now closer to 30 to than to 20, was interviewing for the same job that a BS-grad can go after, and wasn't competitive compared to them.

I asked him why he had spent so much time in chemistry just to pivot and he just literally didn't know. It was hard to look at his graduate education as anything other than a wasted decade that actually has set him back career wise.

One interesting question is how does someone do that to themselves?

Another interesting question is - what is the value of a PhD when someone uninterested in the field and not-that-thought-out about it can get one? We think of PhD designating that someone has committed to the field and pushed a little edge of the frontier forward through sheer motivation and brillians and it was just hard to imagine this being true for this guy.

cucumber3732842•13m ago
>One interesting question is how does someone do that to themselves?

Because the system arounds you encourages it.

fifilura•12m ago
You must be blessed. To always know why you do stuff?
xyzelement•8m ago
Umm yes, what I did for 10 years and why is a reasonable question especially of someone on PhD level.
voakbasda•12m ago
Graduate school is not about passion and pushing frontiers. It is about training new researchers. It is it not a place that I would recommend to anyone who has real passion or brilliance in any field.
chubot•17m ago
This reads like Claude in its abstraction ... I'd rather hear the story about what degree you actually got, what the dissertation was, and some concrete experiences of being disillusioned along the way, etc.

Complexity becomes a way to postpone the verdict. etc.

Meh

engineer_22•13m ago
> Much of my research began with a large claim about society (e.g., "consumer culture constructs identities") and I then searched texts for language that could illustrate that claim. Because almost any passage could be interpreted that way through a sufficiently flexible framework (and enough imagination), it was difficult to say what evidence would prove the claim wrong.

Doesn’t sound like you’re doing science, to me.

In fact, this is the crux of the whole reproducibility crisis in social sciences, is it not?

greenavocado•13m ago
> any passage could be interpreted that way through a sufficiently flexible framework (and enough imagination), it was difficult to say what evidence would prove the claim wrong

The field of social research in a nutshell

JR1427•7m ago
I have a PhD, because at the time I wanted a career in academia, and I enjoyed research. I did a short post-doc, because I still wanted a career in academia, and enjoyed research. I quit academia because I no longer wanted a career in academia, and I didn't enjoy the research (or my boss).

I don't regret my wasted years. Sure, I would have likely earned more money, but it was fun, and made me who I am.

I do find it a bit of a shame that my current and previous employers couldn't give two hoots that I have a PhD etc, but oh well.

EDIT: I have a PhD and post-doc experience in Cell Biology, and now work as a software engineer at a fairly large hardware company.

kome•7m ago
"consumer culture constructs identities"

to be honest, there is no interest in studying capitalism, if it's not a critical study of capitalism and its mechanisms. and i fear that your study was just foucault-slop, pseudo-radical drivel, that in the end doesn't change anything.

there's some philosophical interest in the question, though i can't say exactly where. but if you start from a statement like that and the development of thesis is mostly a display of what you read, it's barely social science. it is social theory at best, and not particularity good one...

the interesting questions, especially in social science, are usually "how" and not "why". the mechanisms. that would have been more empirical and more interesting.

push it a bit more, and you will find yourself you're doing marketing - which is applied sociology anyway: who buys what, and how, and maybe, also why (at the very end).

but anyway, twenty years of foucault-slop isn't bad at all. at least you chilled.

AccountForSale•5m ago
Be Jewish/Indian/Canadian = win because they only hire their own

Not one of those? Try being Mexican if you are good at manual labor - endless work available, no credentials or experience needed.

delichon•4m ago
> But you may know the move: when a project or career no longer survives a basic question, you respond by making it more elaborate.

When I'm defending a political position and it's going so badly that I have to add epicycles, I know I'm on the wrong track. But if I go back to first principles and develop a simpler internally consistent argument, it is usually insanely extremist to modern sensibilities.

Turns out that human morality and consistency are usually strangers.

mym1990•7m ago
Most graduate school students don’t do research and don’t go on to do a PhD though? And what’s wrong with having more researchers?
benfortuna•11m ago
Academia is not a waste of time just because it doesn't translate into "productivity" and wealth. Some people enjoy the pursuit of knowledge, and find great meaning in it.

Increasingly the arts are being defunded based on a similar argument, and humanity as a whole is worse off because of it.

xyzelement•10m ago
He did not seem to enjoy it or find meaning in it.

Something could be valuable despite being "useless" but not in this case.

ydat•9m ago
Why do we need artists anymore? I can just ChatGPT to draw me pretty pictures if I want.
bluGill•6m ago
There is a real conflict here. People are getting loans for their education. A loan is an investment, and should only be taken if it will pay off.

If you are getting education because you are interested in the topic but won't get a job in it: I fully support this. However you should not take a loan out to get this education: there are too many other things to do in life that you also will want to do. Worse the loan means you cannot change your mind later if you are wrong (or you can, but you will still have to pay for the mistake instead of whatever you are interested in today).

There is one other reason for education: to become a better citizen (don't fall for bad politics). However that should be to everybody and I haven't seen much evidence that higher education really helps much.

swader999•11m ago
At the age of 17 or 18 how do you actually know? My kids are going through this now. He's like I don't even know if I want to be an engineer, people just tell me I'd be good at it.
ydat•4m ago
One thing I always hated about university education is how it’s entirely designed nowadays as a sort of “coming of age experience” for teenagers coming out of high school.

I don’t have any higher education. I was stupid and arrogant and thought it would be a waste of time and money. However even if I did do it at that time. I almost certainly would have squandered it. I would t have been mature or aware enough to understand how and where to focus my time and energy in such a setting.

By about my mid-20s I felt like it was, but by the point I had a life and bills to pay and a job to attend to allow for any of that. There’s barely any time or money for education now. I’ve thought about trying to go back for the last decade, but it just becomes less realistic every year.

charlieyu1•10m ago
Many would dream to be top scholars of their field, to the point it feels like a personal mission. The reality kicks in for the first time when you can’t progress through the system anymore, be it 25 or 30.
bluGill•9m ago
A PhD demonstrates the ability to think deeply about something. It thus isn't useless for any good job. However there are often better trainings for that job.
skrebbel•9m ago
A friend of mine did a PhD in computer science solely and specifically so he could prove to himself that he could do a suspended, multi-year solo project and complete it. He then got a job he totally would've gotten 4 years earlier as well, with just the MSc. When asked (eg by recruiters/interviewers), he always said "because I wanted to prove to myself that I could do it" and personally I find that a very satisfying answer.

All I'm saying is, not everyone doing a PhD and then leaving academia was accidentally climbing up the wrong ladder. Some did it on purpose, just to admire the view.

xyzelement•8m ago
That's a good answer. Not the answer I got in the story.
kayo_20211030•9m ago
I would have interviewed him too.

I would have felt that he was at least technically savvy; and, beyond that, he might have the spark of one of the best qualities of a future colleague i.e. interesting-ness - one can't underestimate that.

On the other hand

> he just literally didn't know

That would have been disappointing to hear.

stickfigure•8m ago
At least chemistry is objectively useful knowledge. Even if he would rather work in software engineering, there are a lot of places where domain expertise like that is very valuable. Plenty of software in the sciences.
throwaway_7274•6m ago
Oh hey that’s me! Not literally me. Probably I was a little better off. But I was recently in a similar position, and feel like my PhD was a lost decade in some ways.

The answer, as I’m sure many already know, is idealism and a certain kind of naïvité. It’s not an absolute naïvité, but it is some kind of belief in the value of doing something that isn’t “mere” careerism. You think it’s noble to contribute to science. And you do contribute, a teeny eensy weensy bit. And then you’re 30 and one day you unblind yourself. You look at the job market, and how much money various jobs actually pay. More importantly, you realize quite suddenly that money can actually make your life better, and that, whatever damage it might have wrought on your soul to pursue it, it would at least have enabled you to own a home one day. Maybe have kids. Shit. And the fresh grads who went straight into tech and finance making $300k (hold on, you can make $300k? Wait a second, that’s not a senior executive salary? That’s a normal-ish bourgeois white-collar HCoL salary that people make fresh out of school? WHAT?)… just naturally understood.

And then you try to explain this on a message board or something, and half the people call you a class traitor, and the other half call you a sucker.

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