In general there is excessive alarmism, and the internet makes it possible.
Damn, I'm glad I got to grow up then.
Stuff like training wheels, bike helmets when you are just doing leisure rides. Don't get me started with bike helmets, people wear them and do risker things, drivers drive less careful around them, and you get a false sense of superiority instead of being more careful. If you're on the road/off roading, sure, but now you can get fined in some place for not wearing is one small example of safetyism taking over.
delichon•31m ago
We joke about having a main child and an emergency backup child, but deep down it's not a joke, it changes our behavior.
andai•22m ago
But that pressure is on the parents too. There's this weird two-way feedback loop.
Single child household has made parenting culture neurotic. Because if you screw it up it ends your entire bloodline.
But the neurotic attitude makes child rearing feel like such a burden, people can hardly imagine doing it more than once...
I am told this attitude does not produce beneficial outcomes in the children either. Apparently people grow up healthier when their parents are relaxed.
XorNot•18m ago
Even going from one child to two.. suddenly you don't have numbers on your side in dealing with things.
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